First dates are first impressions. Unfortunately, they can also sometimes be last impressions. While sometimes two people are just not meant to be together, often times it is factors outside of personality that can doom a first date before it starts. Though it can be tempting to plan an extravagant and unique first date, when it comes to meeting someone, it is often best to keep it simple. So when it comes to guaranteeing that a first date won’t be a last, keep these 5 tips in mind for picking the perfect first date restaurant.
1) Location Picking a location that is convenient for both parties is important. If you live on opposite sides of town, you do no want one person spending as much time driving to the restaurant as they do dining out. You can usually find things like steak houses and seafood restaurants in a variety of central locations-making them great options. Also consider things like traffic, parking, and the proximity to other bars and restaurants if the date goes well enough to warrant a night cap. These small details can help avoid major headaches on the big night.
2) Atmosphere Atmosphere is key on a first date. The most romantic restaurant in town can feel like a bit much, but you also want you want to avoid the noise level of a family oriented restaurant. If you have never been to the restaurant that you are considering, give them a call to ask about atmosphere and read reviews online to make sure that it is the right feel.
3) The Menu Since it can be a fun experience to try something different, consider new restaurants or restaurants that have unusual items on the menu. Just do not get too crazy-aim for a place that has the kind of food that appeals to everyone (like those dishes found at most seafood restaurants or steak houses). No need to scare your date away with a complete meal of food they don’t recognize!
4) The Drink Selection One of the best parts of eating out is getting to explore new beers, wines, and cocktails. Since most people need the help of a drink or two to get through those first date jitters, find a place with a quality drink menu.
5) The Service While you and your date do the hard work of getting to know one another, make sure you are at a restaurant who has service to take care of the rest. Whether it is seafood restaurants or local Italian places, do your research to find a place that will make you and your date feel well taken care of, without unnecessary intrusions.
If you use these 5 tips when picking a restaurant for a first date, you can rest assured that not only will you have a great dining experience, but you can also avoid many common mistakes. The quality of the date, however, is up to you and your dining partner.